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I said I wouldn't yell.
Then I did. Again.

It was 7:32am and I could feel it in my chest — that familiar tightness, racing heart, hands already shaking.

You know that feeling? When you promised yourself last night you'd be patient today… But your kid loses it over the wrong cup… And you're just standing there thinking… here we go again.

✅ Used by 26,000+ moms who were also sick of feeling like a monster. 94% broke the cycle in 7 days.

"Mommy, I get really big feelings and I don't know what to do with them. Can we pick a card so I can feel better?"

- I had to turn away so he wouldn't see me cry. But like… good crying?

✶ Help me stop yelling

✦ Works in 3 minutes — no props, no prep

✦ Helps your child (and you) stay calm — before you both lose it.

From meltdown to calm in under 3 minutes.

- Why 26,000+ Families Trust This Deck -

Benefit: Built for chaos by therapists, teachers & moms
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✶ You're Not the Only One Who Feels This Way

A mother feeling overwhelmed, sitting on her kitchen floor

I know because I get messages like this every day:

"I hid in the bathroom after another morning meltdown and just cried. I felt like such a failure."

"My 5-year-old asked me why I'm always angry. I couldn't even answer."

"I'm so tired of being the mom who yells while carrying this invisible load that no one else sees. But I don't know what else to do. I'm touched out, emotionally drained, and just surviving most days."

You're not broken. You're not a bad mom.

Some mornings I hide in the bathroom just to cry for 30 seconds of quiet.

Crying in secret because I don't recognize who I've become.

Missing the mom I thought I'd be.

I love my kids more than life itself... but I'm drowning.

And I feel like I'm doing it all alone while everyone else seems fine.

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🧠 The Brain Science Behind Meltdowns (And Why "Trying Harder" Fails)

Illustration of a child having a tantrum and a stressed mother

Ever feel like you're talking to a brick wall? You are.

  • Using Logic? Their rational brain has temporarily shut down. It’s biologically impossible for them to listen.
  • Threatening Consequences? It’s like trying to explain algebra during an earthquake. The information just doesn't get through.
  • Saying "Calm down?" This actually adds more sensory input to an already overwhelmed brain, making things worse.

This isn't just a parenting theory; it's a biological fact. The National Institute of Mental Health confirms a child's brain is physiologically incapable of processing logic during emotional flooding.

The Unspoken Truth: You Can't Be Their Anchor if You're Drowning Too.

This is why the old methods fail:

It's why sticker charts become ignored wallpaper.

And why timeouts often escalate into a full-blown power struggle, leaving everyone feeling defeated.

Stop searching for another "method."
You need a tool that works in the heat of the moment, RIGHT NOW.

I know this because I've been in your shoes, frantically Googling 'how to be a calmer mom' in the dark, feeling like a complete failure.

A diary entry showing progress from day 1 to day 7

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🛠️ I Built This Because I Needed It Too

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Hi, I'm Laura. Former teacher, mom of 3, spent 20 years helping other people's kids how to handle their emotions...

But when MY son melted down? I froze. Every. Time.

All my training meant nothing when I was standing there thinking, "I literally teach this stuff" — while we both fell apart.

That's when I realized — we need a lifeline, not another lecture.

So I built one. With child psychologists, exhausted moms, and kids who showed us what actually works.

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Here's Your Toolkit for a Calmer, Happier Home

The complete Big Feelings Deck product bundle

54 cards. 6 emotions. Zero prep.

Every card gives you:

✅ 1 simple action for your child (movement, breathing, sensory reset)

✅ 1 calm script for you (so you know exactly what to say)

No apps to download. No lectures to memorize. Just grab a card and breathe.

Use it on your phone. Print it out. Keep it in your car, your purse, on the fridge.

Because meltdowns don't wait for the perfect moment.

Why it works:

When you stay grounded, your child feels it. Your calm becomes their calm. And with this deck — you don't have to figure it out alone.

The first time I used a card during a meltdown... something shifted in me too.

I wasn't the mom who loses it anymore. I was the mom who had a plan.

Look, I know this sounds too simple.

Trust me, I first thought the same thing.

"Cards? Really? That's going to fix us yelling at each other?"

But sometimes the simplest things work — because they're not trying to be complicated.

I need this in my life

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Megaphone Icon This is a Tool for Connection, Not Just Correction

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"I used to dread bedtime. Now my daughter asks, 'Can we pick a card?' I honestly don't know what shifted, but we're not the same people who used to start every morning screaming at each other."

Sarah, Mom of 2

Sarah

Mom of 2

★★★★★

"My son told me yesterday: 'Mommy, I like the cards because they help my big feelings get smaller.' I actually cried. The good kind of crying. For the first time, I felt like we were on the same team."

Emily, Working Mom

Emily

Working Mom

Comparison between the old way and the new way of handling meltdowns
I'm ready to try something different

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What's Inside? (And Why Moms Call This a Lifesaver)

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54 Cards = So you’re never left standing there thinking “what now??” when everything falls apart.

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6 Different Emotions = Because it’s not just anger… it’s the overwhelm, the sadness, all of it.

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3-Minute Activities = Because let’s be real, meltdowns don’t wait for the perfect moment.

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Use on Your Phone or Print = Whatever works when you’re barely holding it together.

✓ No lectures. No scripts. No behavior charts.

✓ One card. One moment. Everything changes.

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Let me try this without the guilt

And look, there are still days when I'm too exhausted to even reach for a card.

Days when I just... yell anyway.

But now those days are the exception, not my entire life.

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Rainbow Icon Imagine This…

What if...

…you stayed calm when your child didn’t?

…you handled a meltdown without yelling — and felt proud, not ashamed?

…you ended the night feeling connected, not crushed?

This is what's waiting on the other side of one card.

Your child melts down. This time… you don’t. You reach for a card — and finally breathe. Your shoulders drop. Your racing heart slows.

You feel something new: proud.

Not because you stayed perfect —

but because you stayed present.

Because here's what I realized...

Your kids won't just remember whether you yelled or not.

They'll remember that you cared enough to try something different.

That when you messed up, you found a way to make it better.

That's the mom they'll remember.

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Digital version available immediately — use it in the next meltdown.

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90-Day "No Guilt" Guarantee —

If it doesn't help, you get a full refund — no questions, no shame.

You've already tried so many things.
This one's finally built for the exact moment everything falls apart.

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Try The Big Feelings Deck Without The Guilt

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You've already tried so many things.

You've stayed up too late reading blogs that made you feel worse.

Watched Instagram reels of perfect moms and felt like you were failing.

Maybe even hid in the bathroom and cried after another morning went sideways.

So here's your chance to try something that's actually built for real-life chaos.

And if it doesn't calm the storm?

You'll still feel better knowing you did everything you could.

✓ Try it for 90 days, risk-free.

✓ If it doesn't work for your family, you keep the deck — and get your money back.

✓ No guilt. No questions. No "what did you do wrong?" Just support.

Because you deserve something that works —
or at the very least, something that gives you peace of mind.

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Stops Meltdowns In Minutes — Or It's Free
Takes 3 Minutes. No Prep. No Guilt.
No More Yelling. No More Tears. Just Connection.
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A proven system parents trust — backed by science and real-life results.

No therapy fees. No parenting books to memorize.

Just grab a card and start seeing change.

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Why wait until the next meltdown?

Because here's the thing... there's going to be a next meltdown. Tomorrow morning. Next week. Whenever.

But imagine this time, when your child gets upset... Instead of that familiar feeling of 'oh no, here we go again'...

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    They grab a card and work through their feelings.
  • 🧘‍♀️
    You stay calm — because you finally know what to do.
  • ❤️
    No yelling, no guilt. Just connection.

Because tomorrow morning at 7:32am is going to happen whether we're ready or not. And maybe this time, we can be ready.

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Frequently Asked Questions

I've tried everything, why would this help?
Because this isn't about complex theories. Most methods fail because they require you to be a calm, rational expert in the middle of a storm. This is different. It's a simple, physical tool you grab to interrupt the pattern. It gives both you and your child a new path to follow, right when you need it most.
Will this work when I'm at my breaking point?
Yes. In fact, that's exactly when it's designed to work. You don't need to remember anything. The card tells you exactly what to do and say. It's a lifeline for when your own brain is too overwhelmed to think.
My child has ADHD/autism/anxiety, will this work?
While this is not a replacement for therapy, many parents of neurodivergent children have found these cards incredibly helpful. The activities are sensory-based and provide the concrete, predictable structure that many kids with these diagnoses thrive on.
What if I don't have time to start right away?
This is a digital product, so you get instant access and it's yours forever. There's no pressure. You can download it and have it ready on your phone for the very next time you feel a meltdown brewing, whether that's in 10 minutes or next week.
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